Why YOU End Up Comforting US When We’ve Hurt Your Feelings
Your autistic partner says something you find offensive, you confront them, they have a meltdown. Now what? Here’s why this common miscommunication happens.
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Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 9, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Your autistic partner says something you find offensive, you confront them, they have a meltdown. Now what? Here’s why this common miscommunication happens.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 9, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Does your autistic child laugh at you when you’re angry. It’s probably not disrespect, it’s a complete lack of understanding of how you’re trying to communicate with your facial expressions.
Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 9, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Does the autistic person in your life seem to abandon you when you’re upset? They might think that’s exactly what you want, or they may not understand they’ve upset you at all.
Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 5, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Does it seem like the autistic person in your life doesn’t listen to you when you speak? That’s because we have a really rough time knowing when it’s our turn to speak!
Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 4, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
“If I knew you were autistic, I would understand your behavior. You should just tell people!” Coming out as autistic can be incredibly dangerous and backfire horribly. Here is why some of us don’t disclose.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 4, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Intentions mean everything to me, but, apparently, I’m very much in the minority.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published May 4, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Why does my autistic loved one interrupt me all the time? Good question. It’s not malice. Here’s what’s really happening and what might help improve communication.
Autistic Characteristics / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published April 24, 2020 · Last modified March 7, 2025
Why do autistic people stare and zone out so much? We need to do it as much as we need to breathe, and interrupting us (unless we are in danger) is damaging to our mental health.
Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Understanding Neurotypicals
by jaimeaheidel · Published April 24, 2020 · Last modified July 15, 2020
Have you ever wondered why neurotypical people make strange sounds while you, an autistic person, are speaking? They’re trying to encourage you to keep speaking!
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published April 24, 2020 · Last modified July 13, 2020
Does it appear like your autistic loved one makes everything about themselves? That’s us trying to CONNECT with you! Find out what’s really going on.
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